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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This happened to me. How old are your kids?

1. He moved to the guest room. This was easy since he accidentally had his text messages go to my son's phone so my son knew about the affair.
2. I did everything I normally do. I did not change a thing.
3. I literally was not rude, just do your thing.
4. I got out of the house a lot, took kids to activities, went for a walk, did yoga, shopping, etc.
5. I refused to fight. If he tried to start something I walked away to my room or for a walk or took the dog out.
6. He can't explain himself. This is on you figure it out yourself I am no longer your support system. call you girlfriend.
7. I knew the OW through friends and made sure they knew I asked him to move out but he refused.

Look up 180 of affairs.

Naturally he refused to move out because of his ego and the girl friend showed her true color and freaked out. He dumped her.

We lived together for 4 years until the youngest went to college and he moved out.

Bought him out of the house and I am sooooo happy!

You will get there. I have a full life without him and you will too.[/quote]

What do you mean she freaked out? What happened?[/quote]

Came to our house, knocked on the door. Said if we were really separated it should be fine, right?[/quote]

That doesn't sound like a freak out. That is her believing him and wanting to come out of the shadows and him telling her what her place really is.[/quote]

I don’t think my husband was ready for her to meet the kids. I think she should’ve asked him first if she could come over. Anyway he stepped outside and said go away. Apparently she had a nervous break down and didn’t go to work for two months. She works in my friends law firm. She was eventually fired.[/quote]

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