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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP asked “is this insane?” “Thoughts”

DCUM has spoken. A few posters say hi for it. The  ast majority say “yes. You crazy”. But sounds like OP is going to do it regardless.

She says that she’ll talk it over with her kid and it would be his decision, but  OP is so defensive and trying to justify it that I think it kid said “no” she’d still do  it - or pressure him into agreeing with her. Making her kid think it was his decision. [/quote]

OP here. This isn't a tribunal. It's okay to dismiss opinions on here if you don't think they mesh with your values or you think the objection raised is immaterial. In fact, being able to discern between valuable feedback and useless comments is really important to being able to use DCUM well.

So for instance, I'm not giving your opinion a ton of weight because you are assuming a ton of stuff about me based on almost no info, and assuming my intentions are bad when I know they are not. So your opinion isn't that useful to me. Some of the other feedback has been useful. I have zero obligation to do what anyone on here tells me to do.[/quote]

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