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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP I have tried to work things out. Listened with sympathy and empathy. Obtained resources for him - counseling, books. Suggested he take a solo trip to clear his mind. Took care of him when he got sick recently. He’s literally in love with her and has feelings of love for me. What do you do when your DH has given his heart away? I am trying to figure that out. [/quote]

Work on yourself and stop focusing on him. Go to the gym, pick up a new hobby, gain confidence.  Have new experiences without him.  When you gain confidence you will be happier. You will attract positive, like-minded people. You will reclaim yourself and grow.  Get a guy friend—you don’t have to sleep with them- try to remember what it was like to have fun, be desired, capture the feeling of life and possibility. That’s what he’s chasing. Get a taste of it yourself but keep the marriage intact, for now.  He may be your true blue, who knows.  But he’s not responsible for your happiness- you are. So go out and find what makes you happy.  
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