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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Limerence? It’s a brief and passing crush and if you don’t act on it no problem. [/quote]
No. I did my homework and read the entire Wikipedia article. Limerence usually last from 18 months to 3 years, I wouldn't call it a brief crush. :lol: [/quote]

Yep. And then they see the AP is just a lying piece of sh@t, just like them.  Not some noble amazing person.  Just a schmuck betraying himself/herself and family.  The bloom comes off the rise so to speak.  Reality kicks in.[/quote]

I think more specifically, the person becomes profoundly disappointed that the other person cannot fulfill the deep promise the limerent person expected.  In fact, the totally unrealistic expectations cannot be met * by anyone * in reality.  [/quote]

That is why it's always said, it's not what is wrong with the spouse or the marriage when someone cheats: it's what is wrong inside the individual.  Until they take a long hard look and start processing whatever is messed up inside that allows them to lie/deceive/sleep around on their spouse/BF/GFs, they will continue to always be unhappy.  Rinse, wash, repeat.  They will keep blowing through relationships.[/quote]

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