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[quote=Anonymous]Wow. I can't believe the responses on this thread.

OP's husband has been carrying a flame for someone else their entire relationship and marriage and she should just shut up and deal because they had a bunch of kids.

[quote]My questions are where do I, [b]and where do we go from here?[/b] Do I insist he stop all communication with her? Do I insist on marriage counseling? [/quote]

In response to the bolded I would go full on diva b!t$ch. Your husband needs to grow up and give up the ghost. There is literally nothing good that can come out of him being in contact with his ex. Either he grows up and starts living that or not. I wouldn't do counseling - what for? So you can "understand" him? He stood up in front of probably God and everyone and said he was committing to you. Time to COMMIT and leave the past behind.

He can either commit to his wife, children, and family or continue to chase some counterproductive relationship with a woman that wouldn't marry him back in the day and will never marry him. He has a chance at love and happiness and he should take it.

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