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Reply to "When your spouse loves you, but is in love with someone else "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Feeling for op here, he blew it...she in the trenches of mothering and pregnancy, a very vulnerable time and there must have been a strong urge based on history, to idealize this past love (as he does) . He did not do a great job of repair obviously...this is not a husband who showed great empathy in understanding what it might be like to see texts of your spouse telling his ex she will be or is beautiful.while you are in pregnancy and probably feel you are far from beautiful (even if you are). Op, I would share your vulnerability with him and ask for what you would like. Maybe you need reassurance, heartfelt reassurance. Maybe he can offer it in a spirit of kindness. Maybe he cannot. If it still bothers you, yes consider seeing someone. [/quote] This is just ridiculous. One women tof elegy for someone who once meant a lot to you AND IS MARRYING SOMEONE ELSE is not an affair or anything close to it.[/quote]
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