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We can all agree that this is totally over the top and ridiculous, OP, [b]but in my opinion there's only a small chance of your getting your money back... unless other guests want to pull out too! Perhaps you can reach out to them and see what they think.[/b]

Were I you, I'd explain that I had no idea it was going to be so expensive, request a refund, and if they refuse, consider it an expensive lesson in knowing who your friends are, and never paying until you're sure you know what you're doing.
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Do not do this ! Extremely inappropriate and you would be creating drama with your cousin. Simply back out. Tell her you would love to go, but unfortunately, it just isn't in your budget as it is much more costly than anticipated. Wish her a fantastic time. If she offers you the $800 or a portion back accept. Otherwise, charge it to the game and learn a lesson about putting down money before knowing the full cost.[/quote]

The bridal party can just pay the extra cost if she bails. I mean, they agreed to go before knowing all the full costs, right? Why should they be exempt from this life lesson? [/quote]

Totally agree.[/quote]

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