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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The trip is inappropriate for so many reasons, some obvious and some more subtle. The fact that your wife would think it is ok, and the fact that you are married to the type of person who thinks it is ok, means that you both have issues and do not really understand what it means to be married. I feel sorry for you both, and for your daughter.    I guarantee that you will be divorced sooner or later, probably sooner.  [/quote]

Well, OP, this PP has spoken definitively and apparently has the gift of being able to foretell the future, as well as read your DW's mind and the friend's mind, so go ahead and save time by booking your divorce lawyer right now. Oh, and PP notes you "do not understand what it means to be married," so don't ever marry again, 'kay? Unless you keep wife #2 locked in a basement, of course. Because you know women, they're either so naive about men, or they're secret whores who just want to let their old "friends" screw them. They don't understand marriage, much less friendship!

Thank you, wise PP, for settling the whole debate for OP. I'm sure he'll be fine explaining to his kid in a few years' time how trust is for suckers. Life lesson, right? [/quote]

Trust doesn't mean you have to be okay with the other person doing whatever they feel like doing. "honey, I'm going out to drink 12 beers until I pass out, but don't worry I will call an Uber to drag me home." Okay, sweety, go right ahead, I *trust* you. "Baby, I'll be at the orgy tonight but like I said I'm just watching out of curiosity, no touching." Okay go right ahead, I *trust* you. "Honey, I'm taking our toddler skydiving, don't worry he'll be strapped in really tight." Okay, I *trust* you. The argument about trust is a straw man that has nothing to do with people being okay with their spouse putting themselves into potentially volatile, dangerous, or tempting situations. Have you ever heard of moral hazard?[/quote]

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