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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hmmm….

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I’m a woman who would occasionally grab lunch with a male colleague. We would also routinely chat after work in one of our offices. Different teams, no real joint work.

No affair. Not even close. Just friends who enjoyed chatting about politics, our company’s work, etc.

I did hear from a coworker that someone asked if we were dating. It was literally just based on seeing us walking together coming/going to lunch or being in each others office after 5:30.

Op: if this is all you are seeing, it is likely innocuous. You can sense chemistry or shame when people are doing something wrong.[/quote]

Devil's advocate if you are so close people think you are dating maybe it's a little inappropriate if one of you is married. I've been friends with coworkers and no one has ever assumed we're dating. [/quote]

I agree.  I was a 'guy's gal' growing up, lots of platonic guy friends and I have brothers.  Nobody has ever assumed I am boning a co-worker.  I had a single male co-worker I used to train for the marathon with (run together after work) when I was engaged to my husband and NOBODY thought we were a couple.  My husband also got to know him well at work happy hours, etc.

You can DEFINITELY tell when a couple is having sex.  There are subtle clues and hints and a feeling, a way they look at one another.  They 100% think nobody can tell, but everyone can tell.  And, the longer they have been doing it the more careless they become.[/quote]

+100.  I've also been in jobs that were mainly male dominated.  There were no rumors about me even though I did go to lunch with colleagues or we talked often at work.  There's a difference when someone is in an inappropriate personal relationship vs. a professional relationship at work.[/quote]

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