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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why is everybody jumping all over the new girlfriend who posted FB pics of taking the kids out? It's the husband that looks bad for being such a non-involved dick during the marriage and then doing dad-stuff with the new girlfriend, but maybe the new girlfriend doesn't know how he behaved in his marriage. Maybe in her mind she's just trying to be active in the kids' lives and do activities with them when they're with her and the dad. The ex definitely comes off looking bad in that scenario, but the new girlfriend, although she unintentionally hurt the wife's feelings with the pictures, seems like she was just trying to be involved with the kids. I know it's painful to see your children with your ex's new girlfriend or wife, but I always wonder, would you prefer the alternative of having the new woman hate them and resent their presence and never do anything with them? Your ex will eventually move on, so if it's with someone who appears to give even a tiny shit about the kids, I still think that's way better than the new girlfriend or wife who would rather pretend they don't exist. [/quote] She is, at best, clueless for unabashedly posting pictures of the kids on facebook, and at worst, a douche. She can be plenty active in their lives, by why does she need to publicize it? Like I said, at best she is clueless, and at worst she is a douche. However, I am a whack job who doesn't like to post/tag pictures of anyone on facebook, which seems to be outside of the norm, so take what I say with a grain of salt. I'm pretty private about my online life and extend the same courtesy to others. I figure if they want to post a picture of themselves on fb, they will. It's not up to me to broadcast the lives of others.[/quote]
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