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Reply to "Never get second or third date. Why am I so easy to pass over?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP! I’m one of those who suggested a mock date with a guy friend; glad you liked that idea. I hear you about not wanting “the games” - and you’d prefer to be up front. You remind me of myself when I was younger (except I’m a guy). I hated “the games” (I still do); it was all so fake and contrived. And I refused to play games - and I believe it ultimately made me less successful at dating (though I did marry well & have 2 amazing kids). But if you can find a way - a way to maybe “step outside yourself” for a date or two and play a few of the “games” - it might work in your favor, for instance: - you’d like a second date so logically you ask him for one. Dont do that. - He asks for a second date (which you want). But the game calls for you to say “maybe.” Yes - it’s contrived and maybe a little dishonest; but it’s just how games are played (I think; again I was bad at games).[/quote]
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