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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Just heard from MIL, via text to me/DH and my FIL:

"OK"

Hahahaha, that's it! Wow.[/quote]

Well done Op.[/quote]

DH should respond, “Actually, it’s not OK that you falsely accused my wife of something she had nothing to do with.”[/quote]

Some of you DCUM posters seem to thrive on being confrontational.  Op knows she has a MiL problem but at least she doesn’t have a DH problem.  Just let it go. [/quote]

What are you talking about? OP has a DH problem, not a mother in law problem. [b]DH said something stupid to his mother about OP demanding vaccinations stats.[/b] It's obvious that he did. He shouldn't have. He should have asked as if he was the one inquiring.[/quote]
Why are you making sh!t up?  Find something better to do with your time. [/quote]

So you believe OP's MIL just picked OP's name out of her magic hat, don't you?

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NP. Are you always this ham-fisted? There’s a lot of room and nuance between “DH asked his dad to make some inquiries on vaccine status after he and DH and OP decided they [b]needed the information[/b]” and “DH said something stupid to his mother about OP ***DEMANDING*** vaccinations [sic] stats.” Where did you get “demanding”?

What’s wrong with you?[/quote]

I get it from MIL's response.

What's wrong with you that you cannot make logical conclusions?  Why would you rather think that her MIL is crazy? I am glad that you used the bolded. If not communicated properly, that "needed" that you used sounds a lot like a demand.

It is almost certain that her DH was not very interested in the vaccine stats, and he made it known (unintentionally/intentionally-doesn't really matter) to FIL that it was his wife who was inquiring(or in your own words, "needed") and that he did not really care. FIL then told MIL.

Put on your thinking cap!

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