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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like he needs an ultimatum. There is laziness, but he is a straight bum. Why did you get pregnant with someone like this? If he wants to be with you he will show some effort, otherwise you need to be happy and coparent separately. Zero chance I’d put up with it much longer. [/quote]

OP. We had talked about having kids for awhile and had started half-heartedly trying. Things started getting bad in the spring - I actually moved out in June after he flat-out told me that he will always put himself first. We didn’t speak for a month, but then I found out I was pregnant. He decided he wanted a family after all and I moved back in.

Anyway, I’ve moved back out and will be staying out. I’ll see if he steps it up once the baby is here, but I have a feeling he’ll just want to see it a couple times a week and then go back home once the fun wears off. [/quote]

This is not a situation to bring a child into, OP. Can't you do better than this?[/quote]

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