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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]At this point I think that posters like you are intentionally ignoring what I’m saying. You’re telling me that you can sleep with your father or brothers any time. You don’t do it every night. It’s not a sleeping arrangement. I have no problem with my kids sleeping where I have sex. I don’t like having potential spectators next to me when I’m doing it. But that’s me. I guess some people like it.

It’s pointless to keep talking about this I guess. I’m talking about a healthy way to do it. I think my kids deserve their own space to develop into. I do occasionally sleep with my kids, if they really beg. I never tell them to. If they need that support I give it to them.

We’re not animals, and while we have self control we also put other controls in place.[/quote]

Who said they are with their kids when they are having sex? Not one person.

And I guess I’m different than you are. I don’t want my child to “really beg” to have their needs met. I never want them to feel they have to do it all, or brave it all, in their own. I feel home is a place where they should always know they can land. They will have plenty of years to grow into loneliness, rejection, self comfort, or the like. They know they have a safe place without ever having the requirement to say so.

Animals put plenty of controls in place. I’m a human, and especially in this day and age, my young human needs me. It’s up to her

What’s interesting is you’re basing “human” in a set of religious/ puritanical, or some kind of rules that have everything to do with religion and morality, and nothing to do with biology, but you want to argue biology.

You can do you, but I’d argue that your sexually fuelled argument will always fall flat. [/quote]

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