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[quote=Anonymous]My patents had separate bedrooms, we’re not physically affectionate, my father would rarely come on vacation with us or to gatherings with my mother’s family, and my mom spoke poorly of my father. I was afraid to have friends over, because I knew it was weird. They never spoke about, which actually made it worse. When my sister and I were teens we actively encouraged my parents to separate because they were miserable and it impacted all of us. Don’t fool yourself- you will definitely f$ck your kid up with this arrangement. It will be confusing and shameful and he’ll know his patents are “different” and then he’ll both resent you for the dysfunction and feel guilty for resenting you, because he will feel bad for you too. [/quote]
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