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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You, your DH and the kids need to have a conversation.  Set the rules and make sure they both understand that this is a one strike, you’re out situation. The high stakes should keep them in line.  Since they are 17, I would insist on no sex and whatever else you feel in important (helping with chores etc). I might print out the rule list and have them sign it. Do you have younger children in the house? BTW, you are doing a good thing.[/quote]

Why are you so hang up on sex? Young people are having much less sex than you old farts.[/quote]

Op here, given the fact he's a complete nervous wreck whose practically jumping at our shadows I doubt he's having sex right now, although I know that could change at any moment but I'm not particularly worried.[/quote]

I think you are being pretty delusional right there[/quote]

17 year olds are at the average age for first time sex. Get the kid(s) on birth control and make it really inconvenient for them to have sex. That’s all you can do. [/quote]

Pretty hard to do that when you let them live in the same house[/quote]

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