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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OMG, same here.

A couple families we had vacationed with saw his lies and outbursts and mentioned abuse or dementia. He had a diagnosis, ASD. 
That was it. Still don’t know what will come of the young kids, he loves them but cannot care for them, or anything.  Even his car. 
It is the twilight zone at home with his mishaps, omittances, and temper tantrums aimed at deflecting from fixing the problem. I don’t even bother asking home what happened since I’ll get total BS response or an argument. But then I also don’t know where the broken glass is or how hurt the child is or how the cabinet got kicked in…[/quote]

You all have to get out under control or you have to leave.  Violence is never ok.

Not sure if this further isolates you,  but DH and I separated our friend circles.  It really helped establish my own support network, and know that DHs ASD was not my problem.  It was naturally shaking out that way anyway because of his outbursts and attacks on my family and friends

I handle all of my kids socialization with their friends they're friends too, so there's no awkward running with DH and their parents that will affect my kids.[/quote]

We need to separate our friend circles and even our family gatherings. He gets in fights, lies, breaks things accidentally all the time but then doubles down on bad and LIES about or HIDES the broken thing. (And never well, he left out glass shards for six kids to walk over).

Families stopped inviting us over to their pool, their beach houses, my side of the family has seen him at his worst and need to heal.

It’s really bad. He denies his symptoms and diagnoses. Frankly nowadays with his denial of what he does and says he needs a brain scan. [/quote]

He should get a scan. I'm getting ready for the one-two punch of ASD and dementia...[/quote]

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