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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do either of these men know that you are dating another guy?

Do they think you are exclusive??[/quote]

OP here. They don’t exactly about the other one but both know I’m dating others. We are not exclusive. I went on 5 dates with both guys. It’s been about a month.

I normally don’t sleep with two people at the same time, but sex is important to me, and I want to make sure there is good sexual chemistry. I spent the last two relationships not dating others and ended up with guys I was sure were going to be good and it never worked out. This time I decided I was going to date more than once guy until I found someone I really liked. [/quote]

I think you misinterpreted your issue. You seem to think it was the time. I  tend to think it's other factors, you don't seem o have much sense picking a guy. Right now you are agonizing over which guy is right because you are on a high-speed train for marriage to have babies by a certain age, yet the things you mention in this thread are so base and immature and not at all the entirety of what you should base a husband and father on.   I fully understand being 32 and wanting to have kids, I do. But you don't want to be 40 with your 2 kids and a husband you hate and want to divorce but won't because you don't want to split custody etc because you rushed it.

Dating multiple men until you are ready to be exclusive is fine, but it makes no sense if you are going to skip over actually doing any proper vetting of the men and only decide you have to pick one because now you have had sex with both.[/quote]

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