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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When I was dating my DH (before we even slept together), around the 3rd date he said, "I don't believe in dating other people. It needs to be 1:1 for me."

At the time, I was like 'wow. what a great guy. one who isn't out in the streets playing the field, etc...'

My DH was/is/always will be an insecure, low self-confidence person who projected all of his shortcomings on to me. "How many people have you slept with?"

We are now separated. Finally!

You in danger girl! RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]

Same here. Exclusivity really early is crazy.[/quote]

Same happened to me. It went to the extreme that he was upset with me having male friends within the first month of dating. Of course he spun it as a positive to make himself seem like a devoted, monogamous man who would never even be alone in the same room with another woman, and like PP, I thought he was a great guy.

Nope. Super insecure, jealous, and controlling. It got to the point where I wasn’t even allowed to talk with men I worked with unless it was 100% business, and he regularly got angry that I had dated/slept with men BEFORE WE EVEN MET. Thank god we’re now divorced.

Had a similar situation recently, a man I went out with a few times mentioned on the second or third date that he had deleted all his dating profiles so he could focus on me. It didn’t sit right with me, we barely knew each other. Sure enough, insecurity and jealousy started to come out a couple dates later.[/quote]

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