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[quote=Anonymous]OP my situation is a little different but my Ex has major mental health issues that he manages poorly, or not at all. I’ve heard both the “happier apart” BS and “I need the kids to keep me going” BS from him like literally months apart! Addicts etc tend to depersonalize those around them because they are so self absorbed, so you and your baby are just triggers, in one direction or another. I also understand the crushing disappointment and grief when you realize you’ve had children with a fundamentally unstable person. It doesn’t go away but like all grief you learn to live with it. Sending you love and strength, you will get through this. [/quote]
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