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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are so so very wrong, OP. You knew that you were marrying into this culture. Name your son "Hani" but introduce him by his middle name. Refusing will cause your DH to feel that you forced him to surrender a part of himself culturally. I am from the South but DH and his parents balked at the idea of a "dry wedding" as most Europeans would. I compromised so that we served champagne and white wine because I knew that this was an important part of the culture into which I freely choose to marry. Woman up, OP. -- Another Toxic Enforcer of Patriarchy[/quote] 1. You didn’t compromise. You got 0% dry wedding. You just served fewer choices. 2. DH’s husband married freely into her culture as well.[/quote]
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