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[quote=Anonymous]Has anything ever happened in the past, OP? My MIL could probably say the same thing about me. She seems to have forgotten that she was absolutely vile to me the entire time my husband and I dated (over 5 years) - she was not thrilled at her son’s choice of partner before she even met me, and did not bother to hide it. When we called her to let her know we were engaged, the silence on her end was so long my husband thought they’d gotten disconnected. Once the grandchildren came along, all of a sudden it was “I love you, I’m so lucky to have you as a DIL!” She’s a good grandmother to the kids. I am polite, I always welcome her and encourage a close relationship with the kids, but will I ever let down my guard and show her an ounce of vulnerability? Never, ever. I bet she thinks that’s all in the past though, and doesn’t understand why all her I love yous go unacknowledged. [/quote]
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