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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I know I shouldn’t let the MRA poster get to me so much, but it is infuriating having someone make wild assumptions and accusations, who has absolutely no understanding of what women of limited means in unhappy marriages have to go through and put up with in order to get out. He keeps talking as if he loved a woman who left him for someone else. Clearly he is not my ex.[/quote]

Your EXDH has every reason to call you out on the one issue you will not face.  You deceived him and then blamed society, your parents, etc. for not letting you be who you are.

[quote]This poster pops up from time to time and it is always the same. I never hear this type of vitriol from them when a woman decides to leave her husband for any other reason - only the reason in the scenario that this thread is about.
The only explanation I can think of is homophobia and misogyny.[/quote]

The explanation you need is you are being called out on your deception.  Plenty of posters, me included, have called out both men and women when they deceived their families prior to leaving them to date or for someone else.

Sadly, you use the term "homophobia" to cloak your defense of plotting to leave your DH to play the field.  The fact that you plotted to leave to date women is not the issue.  The fact that you hid your plot from your husband is.[/quote]

What difference does it make what reason someone had to leave their marriage, when they start making plans to leave?
The outcome is the same. The totality of my “plot” was going back to work in order to be able to stand on my own two feet, which BENEFITS HIM because he does not have to foot the entire bill of raising the kids, nor does he pay alimony. 
Same as any other woman unhappy in a marriage for any other reason. 
You NEVER answered my question about what you think these women should do.[/quote]

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