Reply to Married friends coming out?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Married friends coming out?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm on the other side of this man whose wife has come out. It hurts.    And for some reason, people think I'm not supposed to hurt.  They think I should be happy because  "it's not me",  and "at least she didn't cheat". All those times she didn't want to sleep with me or complained about what I was doing, weren't really about me.  That's great, right? It doesn't feel great. It doesn't feel great to know that the life you built with someone was a total lie. It doesn't feel great to know that the person you love, never loved you in the way you thougt they did.  But I'm selfish for thinking this way.   I wonder if she just used me to have kids. I'm supposed to be happy she's brave enough to live her truth and find her happiness. Maybe someday I will get there, but right now I resent her a lot and find it hard to be around her except when I have to be because of our kids. Thankfully the kids are young enough that none of this seems to be affecting them.  So great for your friends, OP I hope your friend's husbands are doing better than I am.[/quote]

That sucks.  It’s brutal that you have been so hurt and everyone is going to tell your wife how great she is for what she is doing.   She stole years from you.  But, if your kids are still young, you, too, are still young enough to bounce back, and I can almost assure you that you are going to be much happier with a partner that is sexually compatible with you. Don’t waste any time looking in the rear-view mirror on this.   [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics