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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]When the issue is mixed orientation, there is no betrayal of the straight spouse.[/quote] Oh, there most definitely is. The entire relationship is a betrayal. I'm the PP whose husband was cheating with men. I feel similarly to the PP before me whose wife left him and came out. My ex robbed me of 22 years of my life -- the prime years that set your course. It is most definitely a betrayal that he didn't (and still doesn't!) have the strength to be honest with himself and me by extension.[/quote] If he was actively cheating with men during the marriage, then yeah. That isn’t necessarily what happened in these other cases. When I told my husband I wanted to leave, I had not yet actually been with a woman. [/quote]
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