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When the kids are with ex two weekends a month (during the school year), ex gets them to all weekend activities, correct. That’s obviously going to become very difficult post-move. 16 year old is the most upset about it - wants freedom to spend nights at friends houses in future, which can’t happen if she has to go to ex’s.

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[b]Your daughter sounds obnoxious.[/b]  Her Dad sees her 4 nights a month.  She should not be planning sleep overs with her friends during his time.  She should do it on your time.  If he does everything he is supposed to, including activities you need to support him and say that she she should not plan sleep overs on Dad's 4 nights and there are plenty of other days in the month to do that.  Its not going to be difficult to get them to activities, he just has to drive them.

If he will not transport, let a judge decide.  I wouldn't mediate.  Mediation only works with two reasonable people.  If both sides were reasonable this would have been worked out.  He moved so he needs to transport them.[/quote]

Oh stop.   OP's daughter does not sound obnoxious at all.   During the school year there are 8 nights a month OP's daughter can hang out/have sleep overs with friends, and OP's ex is taking away half of them.   The ex's "choices" are having a serious impact on the daughter's life and I don't blame her for being upset about it. 
Ex is selfish and time will tell what kind of relationship daughter has with him once she is an adult and it's not enforced by a court.[/quote]

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