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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, OP, some people are not shallow jerks.

My dh is chubby and I love him fiercely.  And he was slim when I met him.  I don't understand people who decide they don't love their partner anymore when the person gains a little weight.  The only reason I try to steer dh to eating healthier and going for walks with me is because I want him to be healthy and live longer, not because I love him less for being chubby.

Also, you people need to realize that sometimes medical issues arise as a person goes into middle age, and these can affect the spouse's appearance.  What if your slim wife gets cancer and loses her hair?  What if she develops an autoimmune disorder and gains weight she can't lose?  What if she is in an accident that changes her appearance or ability to walk, etc?  There's no way to be sure that an always-been-slim person is going to stay that way forever.

God, you people are shallow.[/quote]

Gaining a few extra pounds with aging, childbirth, illness is not the same things as gaining 100 lbs such as OP's case.  To me, that is an unacceptable amount of weight gain.  If she did it once, I would have serious concerns she would do it again when the going gets tough.  [/quote]

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