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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is a form of racist micro aggression, when asked of a BIPOC by a white person.[/quote]

Give me an F'ing break! Your are exhausting. It's this kind of pearl clutching, hyperbole, and over sensitivity that that narcissistic, POS ex-president was elected. This kind of inability to deal with a simple, innocent question just give ammunition to the all the true racists out there. Please grow a millimeter more of skin and stop being so self involved.

I work in a job where I am meeting new people everyday, and in many cases will continue to interact with them on some level. Why is it racist to want to know how to pronounce their name? I think its actually incredibly rude and maybe even racist to not give a crap what their name is and how they would like be addressed!!!! It basically says "I care so little about you that I can't even be bothered to know how to say your name." ASKING THE CORRECT PRONUNCIATION IS THE CORRECT THING TO DO!. Now, to continue to ask once a person has said it's "fine" or "close enough" starts to border on pushy or obstrusive.

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+1000. People can’t win. If you ask a bunch of questions about their name, you are racist. If you pronounce in wrong and don’t bother asking if it’s correct, then you’re also a racist. Wtf[/quote]

There is a happy medium between asking someone how to correctly pronounce their name and interrogating them about where they're "really from".  The former is courteous and the latter is rude, in the middle just pay attention to social cues and leave off that line of conversation even if you're still curious but they're done answering questions.
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