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[quote=Anonymous]OP — I think you may be getting too much satisfaction from all the drama. His drinking is not about you. He drinks because he is an alcoholic. He can’t control it because he’s an alcoholic. He lies and sneaks because he’s an alcoholic. He blames everyone and everything else because he’s an alcoholic. Every thought, emotion and behavior of his is alcohol-effected. There are very few non-specialists (I’d almost go so far as to say none) who are competent to deal with alcoholism. And even if he has a competent therapist, he hears what they say through an alcoholic filter. Your husband has a potentially fatal, but treatable, disease. He needs the treatment. You need to stop being so codependent and start recognizing that despite being married you are a separate person and need to recognize the boundaries between the two of you. [/quote]
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