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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] Telling women that the “highest value” women who “do well” are pretty, easy going and let their BFs/husbands “shine” is paving the way for abusers. I understand that that poster may truly believe what they are saying, but coming from an abusive FOO, that is a loaded profile to throw upon women. [/quote]

Saying that men value women who are pretty and easy going is pretty much stating a law of nature.[/quote]

The way tbe original PP was talking was more than pretty and easygoing. Note the man who commented above that he wanted a woman who challenged his thinking and with whom he could respectfully disagree. That is healthy. Constantly letting the man have the spotlight, letting him lead, letting him always think he is right, etc. is completely different and is an abusive dynamic. [/quote]

There are always outliers. Most men want easy going no drama women for a wife, compared to someone highly opinionated who always has to be right.[/quote]

Easy going =/= having no opinions or interesting thoughts on anything[/quote]

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