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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m not that word you cannot spell. There’s just absolutely no utility in backing down on that board. I posted that I was venting, and I did. Other non-saint moms confessed to having the same type of dark feelings and thoughts. I have not said this IRL to anyone, let alone the parents. I didn’t add repeatedly to my first posts. But once the pile-on starts and the marms come in to pretend their judgment trumps all and start with the shame, shame, shame nonsense kicks up, yes, I’m going to push back on it. Honestly, it’s almost fun. [/quote]

OP, people felt bad because your daughter has SN. Nothing you mentioned on your original post (eye rolling, not waiting for DD to get up, not saying hi, etc) seemed so horrible to grant your hate towards a little girl. Had your girl been NT, people would have said that the (mean, ugly, horse faced, little s*it) girl did nothing really wrong. If your daughter is slow to climb, tell her to let the other kids go first or take her places that are emptier (or with younger kids).

Had you mentioned really horrible behavior, I would have been ok with your rant.[/quote]

She wasn’t “slow to climb,” as far as an issue but I agree with you about that. The bully told other kids DD should be called “the kid who can’t keep up” and for no one to play with her. She hit her twice, successfully shoved her hard off something where DD got a bad bruise, and swatted at her from above while laughing at her. In our pod, she led the others (small group) to laugh at her during their mini-talent show. The girl did the same as far as playground crap to kids in a younger class who have IEPs for a suite of reasons (mine doesn’t have them) because her class and theirs share the grounds, with Covid scheduling. Anyway. A lot of this brings up awful memories for me, as I found out from an assistant teacher way after the fact, after entertaining the parents during our last play date where the dad boasted about his girls radar for only wanting to play with cool kids and how she’d repeatedly ignore kids in playgrounds who asked to play.

I don’t understand why OPs have to case-build on this site or else get swarmed. “Well you didn’t plead with enough specificity,” yeah ok. Your mileage may vary but I see it all the time here. Tiresome. I am totally fine with my opinions, and had I known earlier some of what I only determined after the fact, I would have stopped it and stepped in with a quickness. Life’s too short and my kid is too precious to us. (And I’m still good with my rant. Never fear.)

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Ah yes. Those “other kids” with SN that are so much worse than your kids. Please. [/quote]

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