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[quote=Anonymous]Op, I’ve had similar issues with my doh- same with the multiple long bathroom breaks, and he’d just have his hobbies or gym time. Someone on dcustom once suggested to me to get a family chore and responsibility chart, and list out all the things that need to get done during the week and put them on postits and split them up that way. It helped DH see all the stuff I was taking care of and it helped him see what he could do to help where needed and he just started naturally helping out more with cleaning up, bedtime and other responsibilities. A lot of times it just took directly asking him to take on an area of responsibility like investments or putting the kids to bed. I deliberately focus on the things I know he can do with no direction from me. Now he does gym time after the kids go to bed. I run before the kids wake up. There are ways to fit it in without sacrificing family time.[/quote]
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