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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Instead of using your parents or DCUM posters as your gauge...why don't you look up what ACTUAL EXPERTS say about this.

https://www.niaaa.nih.gov/alcohol-health/overview-alcohol-consumption/moderate-binge-drinking

This one tells you his risk of becoming a problem drinker, based upon his current patterns:

https://www.rightstep.com/rehab-blog/risk-drinking-excessive-drinking-defined-niaaa/

Your parents love you very much, and want to be sure that you are not entering into a high risk marriage.

I would NOT mention your parents to the SO, but do your own homework. If you have concerns, share them with him (using reputable professional sources, again, not family sources) and see how he reacts. [/quote]

+1.  You should be looking into facts instead of advice from random strangers.  And don’t be mad at your parents.[/quote]

+2.  Go with the facts.  Everyone will say their drinking/or lack of was the best scenario. Almost no one will they were a hot mess express having 4-5 beers and it was a problem nor will they say their 1-2 beers made them a teetotaler prude and looking back they should have had 4-5 beers - whatever choice made for themselves is the “right choice” so reading what the experts say is more objective.[/quote]

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