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[quote=Anonymous]OP, this isn’t fair to you and your situation sounds miserable. DH needs to learn that you are not beholden to the whims of his family. It is up to you to be kind and respectful and engaged when visiting. But when, after spending several hours with family, you want to go home you should not feel guilty or like you are doing something wrong. The fact that they would be offended if you took separate cars and left earlier is ridiculous. It sounds like you do not like his family and then don’t like you. Instead of trying to actually mend the relationship by respecting your boundaries, DH is trying to bully you into neglecting your own needs. When people, like your DH, grow up in a toxic family environment they can become extremely defensive of it. You may have acted in a passive aggressive way (obviously checking the time etc) because you felt you had no other recourse. If you do decide to stay with DH I strongly suggest seeing a couples counselor. [/quote]
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