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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh wait you have a kid.

Nope.  Fix it.  Deal.  Not reasons to leave the father of your kid.[/quote]

And your concern shouldn't be whether you can find a new, better husband.  Your post should be about what is best for your daughter.  That is your first priority.  [/quote]

OP, I do agree with you but I think the two are intertwined. I think my daughter would be better off if I could remarry a better husband reasonably quickly. I think my daughter would be worse off if I could not manage to do this and instead face a rocky dating future. [/quote]

I think this mind set is interesting.  You say he's a good dad but your plan is to pretty much find replacement family unit as quickly as possible?  This new person won't be your child's father.

You're going to be giving up 50 percent of her life.  Holidays.  He will date and move on and your daughter will have a step-mother.  Your daughter might have additional siblings.

I just don't think the main focus here should be how quick you can find a new husband.[/quote]

I agree. I got divorced, and it wasn't a bed of roses out there. I hate steps and exes for the record. OP's child will probably feel the same then resent the new kids taking their parents attention away. It really sucks. Wait till the holidays come OP. [/quote]

I'm divorced. Holidays are not a problem for me. Yes, I have kids. Not everyone feels that missing a holiday here in there is worth giving up for your life in a unfulfilling marriage. You can have the shared holidays. I'll take my life. [/quote]

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