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[quote=Anonymous]He thinks he wants to be in a relationship, but he doesn’t. Having really high expectations/demands is less about “not finding” someone who has all those unrealistic expectations. It’s about his own ambivalence about being vulnerable in a real adult relationship. He’s subconsciously keeping himself out of relationships because he’s afraid to be vulnerable. He’s expecting perfection in a twisted way to prevent breaking up and the heartbreak that follows. If I find the perfect woman, we’ll never break up and I’ll never feel that pain. It shows me that he is weak psychologically. He can’t be vulnerable, get close and risk getting hurt. [/quote]
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