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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had a man once tell me that he preferred to have slightly "crazy" women as affair partners and that there came a time when he ghosted any affair partner permanently and without explanation.  He said that this drove his partners either by nature or design to engage in erratic behavior such a repeated phone call, or multiple texts or emails that he could keep as evidence of their unhinged nature if they ever attempted to contact his wife, work or friends, thus hurting their character and making him appear the sympathetic victim of his partner's insanity.  Needless to say I lost all respect for him.  When my older children watched an episode of "Always Sunny" where Dennis discusses his foolproof way to make women sleep with him (demonstrate value, engage physically, nurture dependence, neglect emotionally, inspire hope, separate entirely), I almost lost it, there's some truth in that. [/quote]

Narcissists look for people to worship them.  Having someone profess their love and then later tear them down is a sick thrill many of them get.  The ghosting and poor treatment after the love bombing and excitement wears off.  They use women desperate to believe it's 'real'.

They are tossed in the trash w/out looking back when they get dependent or there is a legit reason to fear discovery.  Wiped off the face of the earth in their minds...somebody who weeks ago they were falsely professing love.[/quote]

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