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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Agree with previous poster. I was also complicit in that I felt like I had to deal with all the household things, since my SPOUSE WAS WORKING. Getting a part-time job helped me snap out of it. I also occasionally say I have a meeting conflict when he wants me to do something, to reset his entitlement tendencies.[/quote]

Yes.  Had to be vigilant and maintain a norm of me having a calendar and not just being available to do whatever he happened to prefer at all times.

The hardest part was the tone of voice, the manager-subordinate phrasing and tone that crept in from his office.  These things are insidious and very hard to keep from happening.[/quote]

Yes, the reminder phone calls regarding the list he has left for you, and your failure to respond in a timely manner.  Glad I went back to work.[/quote]

I am a stay at home mom to a 2 yo and 4 yo and this has never once happened to me. I am the one sending my spouse lists because he is "only working" whereas I am really busy with the kids.[/quote]

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