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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My FIL cheated and then married the AP who was friends and a colleague of both him and MIL. MIL is a patient saint who maintained a good friendship and coparenting relationship with FIL despite all of it, but the one rule is that FIL's replacement wife/AP is not allowed on her properties, and no one brings AP up to her. We go to her home for Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc. and FIL is welcome to come alone if he wants to participate but is not to bring AP/wife, even 20 years later. I think it's more than fair but I let DH handle his family and keep my mouth shut in the discussions.

When we have gatherings at our home or celebrations for our kids, DH has decided that AP/replacement-wife is not welcome if MIL wants to attend out of respect for his mom and to make her comfortable. So OP, that's your future - you and your AP made this bed and your ex has no obligation to hear about, accept, or see it rubbed in his face.[/quote]

Good for your husband that he has maintained boundaries and that mother's feelings come first.  Your MIL is a saint:  still allowing your FIL to come to her house for Thanksgiving is not easy I'm sure.[/quote]

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