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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]" Mom, 2 years ago you did something that really pissed DH off, mostly DH, but I'm kind of pissed too because he said I should be.  Because of that, the kids won't be seeing you anymore. I still will be visiting you."[/quote]

I am as pissed as DH.[/quote]

It is bizarre (and the reason that people are probably reacting to your post) that something could be at once so upsetting that you are willing to cut off contact between a grandparent and her grandchildren, but so nonimportant that you wait 1.5 years to mention it.  There were telephones, emails and Zoom calls during COVID.

I only hope the people who do this kind of thing recognize that they are modeling treatment of older family members for their children (and really not just older family members - if I make a big mistake, will mom and dad cut me off too?) and don't live to regret the decision.

For me, this would have to be an extremely serious situation to merit such behavior and my mother would have heard my voice reacting right then.[/quote]

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