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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does she not remember what she did in 2019?  It is extremely odd that you haven’t addressed it since then so the best comment is what numerous others have already said - “id like to come visit on XX, however based on what happened during the last visit, we won’t be bringing the kids for visits for the foreseeable future. We can talk about it when I come if you’d like”[/quote]

She probably remembers she’s not senile.  I don’t know if she knows that I know what happened.

We have had multiple major events, including deaths and severe illnesses since then.  The timing was lousy.  [/quote]

So make a short trip to see her by yourself. When you are together you can address the 2019 incident. You may not even need to come out with the words about keeping her from the kids.  Just tell her only you’re available to visits.  You can add that given everything that’s happened and changed, you’re just making plans for your family day by day as you work through the issues of the past few years. [/quote]

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