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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What I'm struggling with is what to do about sleepovers now that my tween has come out as pansexual, along with the friends she wants to do the sleepovers with. I wouldn't let her spend the night with a boy if she were straight, so what now? [/quote] No more sleepovers. Sleepovers were always super questionable anyway.[/quote] As a lesbian who grew up in the 80s and crushed on many a CIS female friend who was what we called then "bi-curious", I agree with this. Sleepovers are difficult and pressured and can become a 'twilight zone' where you feel safe -- until the next morning, when your supposedly consensual "curious" friend suddenly decides to tell the world you sexually harassed her. Or something. I know -- I'm a bit triggered. But it's pretty easy to tell a 13 year old that you're not hosting any sleepovers. It doesn't take away all opportunities, but it may come as a relief. [/quote]
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