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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t know. I wasn’t, but I was the victim of a significant amount of mean girl BS in middle school, and it devastated me. Like most adults who were once bullied, it has undermined my trust in people the rest of my life. On paper I was very successful as an adult but internally the damage remains and studies bear out that I am not an outlier.

If you figure out an answer I’d love to hear it.[/quote]
Wow. This was me too. Summarily dumped by friends I had been best friends with from 4-6, but we got to 7th and was pushed out. Still no idea why despite reflection. At the same time my sister started hating me. Basically I never get past the acquaintance stage with anyone because I don’t believe they like me or don’t know how to make the friendship deeper. Most of my friendships have been with boys/men who liked me. So now that I’m married I’m pretty lonely since obviously those aren’t appropriate anymore. Such deep rejection and I don’t know where to start unpacking that mess in my head. [/quote]

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