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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is me and my husband. I wouldn’t choose the wording you did but I enjoy having conversations about intellectually stimulating topics where my husband likes to talk about more concrete topics like household repairs, funny stories from the past, etc. He watches those shows like Rediculousness and other YouTube/TikTok type collections of funny videos. I went through a phase of feeling frustrated and embarrassed about his seeming lack of intelligent conversation but after a recent health crisis, I’ve realized that he is a good man who is very smart and just doesn’t find enjoyment in the same podcasts, documentaries and books that I do. It’s all about finding common interests. We both are very interested in true crime and cooking/baking. We also both love to hike. I have great friends who engage with me about other topics. [/quote]

I totally get this and have the same experience. I don't know where other women find their handsome, sexually fabulous, highly evolved, monogamous, deeply intelligent male dreamboats who want to have deep conversations with them  in an ongoing long marriage. I am married to a mortal man, and a smart person,, as are most of our friends, and we all have moments where they are disappointing, intellectually or in their patience level or their wandering eye or a whole bunch of possible ways. No one gets it all in a partner and there is never a complete match. [/quote]

This is true. And my friends that are waiting for that guy are now 40 and single.[/quote]

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