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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to stop at "we're all government employees, we know what they make." You DON'T know exactly what they make. You don't know if they invested early in apple, amazon, tesla. You actually don't know if they have family money! You don't know if they made a lot off past real estate.

But also, it's totally not your business. Your "house envy" is really indicative of other issues. You may want to address them. It's not a good look.[/quote]

Grow up, OP.  Take responsibility for your choices and your paths that you took.  Own your sh*t - no one owes you damn thing.

I know people like you who get hand outs from their ILs or parents.  Guess what?  They are never happy, because it is never enough, and they are always trying to count other people's pennies.  Guess what? You can't.  No one is going to tell you everything, no matter how much you want them to, and not everything is on Google.  Too bad, so sad.

MYOB and live your own life. Stay in your lane.  Since you asked.

Here's an example:  I don't have a beach house or a pool, but instead of lamenting what I don't have, I thank God that I survived my serious illness, and my homelessness.  I also visit my friends with pools or beach houses whenever I am invited.  Most importantly, I don't spend that time saying "why don't I have this???!" I spend my time soaking in the sun and the conversation, and thank God I have generous friends who love me enough to invite me.

You need to gain perspective and grow TF up, OP.  No one owes you a damn thing.  The sooner you know that, and live it, the happier you will be.  Like we tell our young students, "eyes on your own paper". Before you know it, your kids (assuming you have some) will be grown and out of the house.  They will remember mom as believing "nothing was ever good enough, she was never happy, must have been us". Do you want that?

Jealousy shows, and it ain't pretty. [/quote]

Pure, unadulterated nastiness shows and it’s even more unattractive. This post is entirely over the top.[/quote]

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