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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you a saltwater fisherman, PP?

What entire job can you not work in another state, or why could you not transition to a career that was possible in your state? I'm fascinated by your tale of utter helplessness. Its almost like you take no active role in the outcome of your own life.

I do hope your child never hears about your "wasted decade", considering you seem to basically blame it on their existence. [/quote]

He would not let me switch careers. I made too much money. Always planned to come back here anyway. He would not let me take time off of work. He married me for "practical reasons." I blame him. Unless you have been in an emotionally abusive relationship (I was not even able to leave the house for 6 years...he would not let me go to the grocery store even...he wanted to control what was allowed in the house), don't comment. [/quote]

This sounds really terrible but under these circumstances I don’t understand why you elected to continue the pregnancy? This is what abortion is for. I understand that you now love your DC but at the time it was an available option.[/quote]

It crossed my mind. But I was raised to religiously to do it. I was always told it was murder. I no longer believe that. Being pregnant when you do not want to be and feeling your life is permanently over because it is not what you want is probably the worst feeling I have ever experienced. That would have been the best option in my situation. Being raised religiously can be a lot like brainwashing. [/quote]

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