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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your only choice is to look for a widower or date a 20 something. [b]Most divorced men have fatal flaws, that's why some other woman threw him back[/b] - bad husband.[/quote]

Which makes them perfect for a divorced woman who was tossed back.

I'm sure I'll get flamed for saying this but: You went to college, you dated one smelly guy, you eventually found a job and moved in with your college BF. You didn't realize that real life is different from college. But now it's 3-4 years post college and you bought into the idea that you MUST get married by 30 and you've "invested" so much time in him. You have a wonderful wedding, all your sorority sisters are in it. So many great pictures. Then you wake up one day after the honeymoon and realize this is it. And your husband has the same realization. You're both miserable, and eventually you divorce.

Let's stop acting like women who weren't picky are innocent actors. They weren't picky, they put up with crap, and now they're sobbing that dating at 44 isn't what it was at 24. But don't worry, they'll feel better about themselves by calling divorced men damaged and calling single women weird. They'll be fine.

OP: you stayed with a cheater. Sucks to suck, but you made a mistake. And for what?[/quote]

I find you so strange. Most women who are single are too picky not settlers.[/quote]

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