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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again. I confided in DH about his stepmom’s behavior and he gave me permission to call FIL. Unfortunately, he wasn’t inside the house so step-MIL answered and basically said she showed him the videos and he said thanks. I didn’t get to speak with him and she was very curt. I asked if they were coming to see us in the summer and she said no without giving an explanation. DH took over and basically started asking if they’d consider moving to our city to provide emotional support and be closer to FIL’s grandchildren and she just said no. DH is upset as she usually is warm toward him and he blames me for “turning her against us”. I’m at a loss that I have no way of reaching FIL to show videos of his grandkids and DH isn’t supporting me,[/quote]

Are you saying your FIL doesn’t have a cell phone? You have to call their land line? Because it sounds like your DH gave permission for you to reach out to him and you no longer need to go through MIL. This doesn’t add up, I suspect you are making this up as you go along. Also, it is odd your DH would just get on the phone and ask them to move near you to help out. If you are for real, I imagine they are attempting to set boundaries because you and your DH are a hot mess.[/quote]

Also your dh goes from preventing you from contacting his father to wanting his father to move to the same town so you can all be close and one big happy family?! I don't get it. Your dh is a terrible communicator and controlling and you are being weird.[/quote]

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