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[quote=Anonymous]Wow, this sounds tough.  Agree with pp that you should see a family law attorney to make sure you have a clear understanding of your options regarding alimony, custody etc.

I’m guessing you’re scared of divorcing even if you recognize your DH is a jerk.  That’s normal. But he’s telling you clearly who he is and you should take advantage of that & prepare!

You didn’t say much about custody; if you stay here it doesn’t sound like your H will fight to take your child with him.  And if he did I imagine you would have a stronger chance- you’ve been doing all the heavy lifting with your kid now.

I wouldn’t move with him.  He doesn't sound like he's interested in having a supportive relationship with you even post divorce and you'd be leaving behind whatever your support network is here and changing your kid's school.

Don't stay tied to him by moving!  Move later if you still want to post divorce!

See a lawyer, gets your ducks in a row, file for divorce.  Worry about the bar once school is back to normal next year.  Divorce and the bar/moving are separate events.  
Good luck- and a video call with a good therapist biweekly might be something to consider![/quote]

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