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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can guarantee what is going on.

You bend over backwards to treat your DD with kid gloves to make up for lost time and because you feel guilty for all the years you didn’t really try all that hard to see her and for making her leave the only home she knew.

Go ahead divorce: But you will date again and the next woman will find you run into similar issues. It will be rinse and repeat. [/quote]

This was my thought. The 17yr old is probably different when you weren't around. She probably puts blame on the second wife. [/quote]

I work at home so I'm always around. Daughter doesn't complain about 2nd wife at all. Daughter mostly avoids here and stays in her room when wife is home. Wife is the one that complains to me. Its not what you are suggesting.[/quote]

The next time your DD wants something say No and don’t cave. No matter how much whining or crying or guilting. Then see how quiet and “she stays in her room” happens 😂😂  Your DD resents you but see how easily she can manipulate with guilt and she is right. So she takes her anger out on your wife and is nasty towards your wife and makes sure to do it when you aren’t around. Do you honestly think your story is unique? I have seen this happen in friend’s families.

The problem is you are so arrogant that you actually believe you and your home are so amazing that you have not even stopped to think about it from your 17 yr old DD’s perspective. Here you are some stranger who didn’t even bother to try to hard when she was a kid and left everything on her mom. And she didn’t try and commit quicker because of her mom. Then when DD needed support you decided to swoop in and play hero and take her mom to court. Now DD has had to move to a new house and it’s not her “home”. Her home is where her bedroom is where she grew up. Her home is where her friends are. Stop being so arrogant and start realizing your view and your opinion are all that matter.

I am not on your  wife’s side but I am just struck by how oblivious and dumb you are acting. Your DD is not perfect, your wife is not a monster and you are guilt ridden. Again you can get a divorce but your next relationship will run into the same issue, and the next relationship after that, and so on until you pay attention. [/quote]

Jesus. What kind of sh!tty parent says no to their child just to prove a point and then laughs about it??

OP don’t listen to this psycho. [/quote]

Agree. Children in this situation are not capable of manipulation and should not be judged by any standard. It is a cry for help. [/quote]

Oh please - no she is not a “child”

And do you truly believe that a 17 yr old has no idea how to manipulate ? Are you really that dumb?

The problem with so many posters is they are responding based on their own situations of in tact family and I can tell have little kids because the response read like something parents of little kids would write.

The problem is OP and he needs to get himself together. I have no doubts at all that he has come to realize parenting wasn’t easy and that his DD has exactly the issues his ex-wife said she did. Except OP spent years blaming her and believing the issue was his ex wife. [/quote]

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